Media Literacy Week is November 3-7. Co-hosted by MediaSmarts and the Canadian Teachers’ Federation, the official theme “Youth & Social Networking: Creative, Connected, and Collaborative” will encourage adults to work with young people to explore the opportunities that social networking tools provide for contributing positively to society and building digital skills for the future.
I think every kid should know how to swim. It’s one of those crucial life skills that must be in everyone’s arsenal. That’s why my husband and I introduced our kids to water at the earliest possible opportunity. First in the bath and the shower (okay, so maybe these are more about hygiene), and then we graduated to sprinklers and inflatable pools, wading pools, beaches, and lakes. As soon as the kids were old enough we signed them up for swimming lessons.
Our kids learned that water is fun, but also dangerous, and we told them they had to be careful around water. Drowning is a harsh reality, so we drilled water safety into them early on.
I think our approach to social media should be the same as it is for swimming. Shouldn’t we teach our kids about the joys and the perils of it, instead of just tossing them in and hoping they can keep their heads up above water – swim, not sink?
My kids are 13 and 15, and they spent their formative childhood years without video games, iPods, FaceTime, iPads and PVRs. We had lots of books, board games, a record player, and regular cable. I can’t imagine what it’s like growing up digital, but I have to recognize that social media for kids today, is what the telephone was for me when I was a kid. It’s a way to communicate, a way to belong to a tribe, a way to show the world who I am. And this is important.
Our conversations around social media break new ground for me all the time. Not only because many of the issues kids are facing nowadays are different from my own youth, but technology has elevated and changed everything. Bullying, copyright, privacy: these are issues that we’re talking about openly around the dinner table on a regular basis. What’s right? What’s wrong? Sometimes the answers aren’t clear.
One of our regular social media-related conversations is about “likes.” As a parent, this has been a very challenging issue, and one that has been very difficult to resolve.
As many of you reading this probably already know, if you’re using social media, your audience can tell you, in one click, whether they “like” something (in the language of Facebook), “heart” it on Instagram, or give it a thumbs up on YouTube. Unfortunately, many kids who are growing up with these social media tools use the number of “likes” their content generates to measure their self-worth. It’s very hard not to fall into this trap, and doubly hard to tell kids to ignore the number of likes that their content is generating.
We do our best, as parents, to remind our kids that it’s not important what other people think about their posts. What’s important is that THEY themselves like it and are comfortable in their own skin. (This, of course, is easier said than done.)
The world of social media is a big one to just jump into. This is why I really like the idea of creating a family social media account for kids who are old enough to know about social media and under the age of 13, which is the age minimum set out by Facebook and Instagram. Kids who are 10 or 11 are the perfect age for a family social media account, and tend to be the most receptive to the idea.
Setting up a family account to start, gives kids a gentle immersion into the world of social media. It’s an opportunity for kids and parents to review and learn about big issues such as privacy and bullying, but it also gives families a cool project to work on together, sometimes with really creative results. (And as an added benefit, kids, who are often so quick to adapt to new technologies, can teach mom and dad, or grandma and grandpa, about them too!)
So which social media sites can a family join together? Here are a few of my favourite ideas:
1. Family Instagram accounts
Our dog Piper has her own Instagram account (http://instagram.com/pipertomkins), but since she doesn’t have opposable thumbs it’s controlled entirely by the human members of her family. It’s been really fun, and we all contribute to this ongoing project. The reason I like Instagram for families is that it gives my kids the opportunity to be really creative using both words and photos.
You can read more from me about Instagram here: http://mediasmarts.ca/blog/what-parents-need-know-about-instagram
2. Family Facebook accounts
Just as you’d have a personal profile on Facebook, you can start a family account. This is a great solution for young tweens who are chomping at the bit and can’t wait to get their feet wet.
Check out the Think Before You Share Guide from MediaSmarts and Facebook here: http://mediasmarts.ca/sites/mediasmarts/files/pdfs/tipsheet/TipSheet_Think_Before_You_Share.pdf
3. Family YouTube accounts
Teaching kids how to shoot and edit video is fun on its own, and the experience can give kids special insight into movies and television shows that will fuel conversations when families watch TV together. And who knows, maybe you’re launching the career of the next Steven Spielberg!
You can read more from me about YouTube here: http://mediasmarts.ca/blog/what-parents-need-know-about-youtube
Shared social media accounts and family projects are a great way of teaching our kids good media literacy skills. So why not start talking about how to navigate those waters early, so they’ll understand the importance of privacy, copyright issues, appropriate sharing and all the other things that will make them a good “netizen.”
What’s not to like, heart, or thumbs up about that?
This is a great idea - I am
This is a great idea - I am loving the idea of a family Facebook account to help them get their feet wet. I absolutely agree you want to introduce them to these platforms and have these discussions while they are still young enough to want to have rules set out for them.
One other thing we’ve been doing lately is playing an online networking video game together as a family (it’s Clash of Clans). We are all on the same tribe, so when we encounter strangers or have to deal with online emotional outbursts, we can talk together about how we want to see it handled. I think it’s been a really good introduction to the idea of Your Online Self, and how you want to appear to others in online interactions.
I love this idea. Teaching
I love this idea. Teaching your kids how to respond to emotional outbursts is really important. At MediaSmarts we teach kids about “hot” emotions and how they should get offline when they are in a hot emotional state and never respond online to someone who is angry or upset.
I love this idea. LOVE!
I love this idea. LOVE!
It’s a wonderful way to, once again, stress the idea of leaving a positive electronic footprint for our kids - and for ourselves. We’d never hand a car ver to a kid and say, “There you go! Good luck!”. Of course not. That would be idiotic.
And yet, we hand over technology far more complex than anything else in their lives and expect them to tread the waters of social media alone? No way! That’s just not wise.
I really love this post and I am glad I was able to find it via quietfish.com.
This is great article and a
This is great article and a well thought one.
In the connected world that we are in today, social media has picked up rigorous momentum. As adults, if we haven’t clinched a prime seat on the social media rollercoaster, then we better do so at breakneck speed. Generating valuable content to engage your target audience and build trust with your customers is the need of the hour.
But for the younger generation, it’s a different story. As tempting as it is to post online, its essential that children and teenagers are supervised by their parents when they ride the social media wave.
Yes, it’s never too early to teach your kids about social media.
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